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From the Clip 20 Ways to Attack Shyness posted by Scrivs:

Regardless of whether you are introverted or extraverted, we can all relate to that feeling of shyness at some point in our lives. Socially, we tend to have the misconception that only introverts experience shyness, but that is not true. Shyness has more to do with being uncomfortable with one’s self, especially around other people.

What I really liked about this article was that it didn't treat shyness as a disease or something wrong with a person. I know plenty of shy people, my brother being one, that either just need to grow out of it or just need some experience of stepping out of their shell. Getting rid of shyness doesn't mean you have to be as boisterous and loud like myself, it just means (to me) you have no problem socializing with other people and not being just a fly on the wall.

Also it's important to know that not being shy also doesn't mean you don't get nervous. I get nervous around large groups all the time and god forbid I have a public speaking event. There isn't enough deodorant in the world that can keep my pits dry.

Going to bars and clubs isn’t for everyone, and that’s okay. Understand what feels comfortable for you, and find people, communities and activities which bring out the best in you. You can be just as equally social in settings that you connect with on a personal level, than the popular social settings. You don’t have to be doing what “everyone” else is doing. Besides, everyone else isn’t necessarily happy, despite your perception as such.