So I went out with her, had my fun, and now I don't want to see her anymore. She keeps calling me and doesn't "get it". What's a nice way to get rid of her?
So I went out with her, had my fun, and now I don't want to see her anymore. She keeps calling me and doesn't "get it". What's a nice way to get rid of her?
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Andrew
Written Jul. 18, 2006 / Report /
Black roses? Change your phone number? Tell her you're pregnant?
or...you could just tell her the truth.
Devin
Written Jul. 18, 2006 / Report /
Will you ever really bump into her again? If so you just start working your way to never talking again. Get too busy, mention you'll need to call her later, etc. Girls do it to guys who don't get the message, no reason why you can't..
Scrivs
Written Jul. 18, 2006 / Report /
You could always just man up and tell her.
Josue
Written Jul. 18, 2006 / Report /
Thanks fellas, I answered my phone a couple of hours ago and just told her I wasn't interested. It went alright.
mstickel
Written Jul. 19, 2006 / Report /
There ya go. If they don't get the first hint — it's always nice to give them a way out at least once to make them feel good about the split if you decide you ever want to tap that again — then it's a straight trip to bluntsville — and no I'm not talking about Josue's special cigarettes.
avuee
Written Oct. 4, 2006 / Report /
Was this the girl you met at the club?
Josue
Written Oct. 4, 2006 / Report /
No it's not
Tyme
Written Oct. 4, 2006 / Report /
Josue turn down a Beyonce look-alike? Ha, not in this lifetime. :)
BonitainPink
Written Oct. 13, 2006 / Report /
Being up front about things is best. Even if it hurts her feelings.
As long as you do it in a respectful manner too, though.
You can't say, "Stop calling me you bitch!" LOL
Wait. I mean, you could. But that's not gentlemen-like.
Just a "Hey, you know what? This isn't working out. Just want us to be friends. Nothing more ok?" should do.
I'm glad she got the point though. =D
isdereks
Written Oct. 13, 2006 / Report /
I was going to say just email her this thread.
Josue
Written Oct. 14, 2006 / Report /
Thanks Bonita.
lol Derek.
Ana
Written Oct. 15, 2006 / Report /
LOL @ Derek.
Yeah... that's another option...
NOT!
You're welcome Josue.
=)
Stefani1
Written Oct. 16, 2006 / Report /
Dude, that sucks....its guys like you that give them ALL a bad name...
lisa
Written Oct. 16, 2006 / Report /
No, it's guys like Josue who make us all hot and bothered.
Sigh. And I would have been all mean about it too. Next time, Josue, give her my number, and she can call me long distance to explain why it's not working out between you two.
Stefani1
Written Oct. 17, 2006 / Report /
Hot and bothered??? Yea, not me....I prefer decent nice guys and trust me girls there are many hot dudes that are sweet.....
SammyJ
Written Oct. 17, 2006 / Report /
"Step forward if you're my girlfriend.... you, not so fast"
lisa
Written Oct. 17, 2006 / Report /
Ah, see, well that's the thing. I know Josue, and I know what he's like. And I prefer decent bad boys who know what they're doing and don't sugar-coat it at all.
TheAngel83
Written Oct. 18, 2006 / Report /
Maybe you should just tell her the truth instead of her bugging at you!
bluebloggin16
Written Oct. 26, 2006 / Report /
You're on here again asking for advice when you know the answer? You "had your fun". Damn, you are in for some bad fucking karma man... I wish could watch your fall...
Josue
Written Oct. 26, 2006 / Report /
Bad fucking karma huh? Yeah, bring it on.
chris
Written Oct. 27, 2006 / Report /
u mad
brendan
Written Oct. 27, 2006 / Report /
Karma? Isn't she that hot Italian chick with the big jubbies? Or am I confused..
Josue
Written Oct. 27, 2006 / Report /
Hahahaha btw brendan your url has a comma instead of a dot.
Stefani1
Written Oct. 27, 2006 / Report /
Dude Karma's real...dont fuck with it....:)
chris
Written Oct. 28, 2006 / Report /
hmm...
LondonGirl
Written Oct. 28, 2006 / Report /
if you don't want to see her and you're too wimpy to call - then at least text her or email her. Otherwise it's just rude.
And as the various notes above testify... you give out bad karma and sooner or later you'll get it back.
No-one's asking you to be in love with her - but at least be grown up about it.
brendan
Written Oct. 29, 2006 / Report /
I know - sadly I can't seem to find where the heck one can edit one's details. :)
Josue isn't giving out 'bard karma' - he's just being open and honest (bit too honest for his own good, perhaps, but honest none the less).
Scrivs
Written Oct. 30, 2006 / Report /
Only honest for his own good if she reads the site.
thesirdanny
Written Oct. 30, 2006 / Report /
too true
but didn't Josue already settle it?